Honesty

   Honesty is the best policy right?  But the real question is are you truly honest when someone ask you something? I guess through the years I have found myself as maybe being to honest. Honesty is viewed in different opinions .. some people are brutally honest and it can comes off as rude. But the truth is if you ask me if those jeans look good on I am going to tell you what I think. Or if your mad about something I may think its ridiculous. So I would say I am someone good to go shopping with, or call when your mad at your husband.
       But when should you bit your tongue and not say things? Sometimes I have a hard time figuring that one out. Peoples views are all so different. And in fact I was faced with a conversation looking back I might should of just bit my tongue and agreeded. But that isn't who I am. And I am proud to say that I have found who I am and happy with that. It may come off offensive because I am confidant. Not with looks I don't think any women is fully satisfied with there body. I feel confidence comes from being happy with who you are as whole. I love who I am.. Wife, Mom, and friend. These things sum up where my confidence comes from.
      But the Honest truth of it all.. we don't really know where everyone else story begins. I feel I don't put much expectations on people because that just leads to dissapointment. I know I have had my far share of that in my life. But when it comes to honesty I want it.. I want my friends to be able to call me and be brutally honest. And I am the friend to call if you want the truth. I may stumble on it to decided if someone can handle that and at times I cant either. But in the end isn't that what we all want to hear the Honest truth.  This goes much deeper than they way a pair of jeans fit.
  So be careful we do teach our kids honesty is the best policy, but some where along the way we loose that policy. Just some thoughts..